Boundaries have become a hot topic in modern relationships, often framed as the key to healthy interactions. But are they always the best approach? In our latest video on LILY Tube, Jeff challenges the idea that boundaries build intimacy, arguing that they often create division instead. While boundaries can protect against abuse or toxic behavior, they […]
In Jeff's recent full length article in his Singles Column for Meridian Magazine: Beyond Blame: Nurturing Relationships in The Inferno of Frustration, readers are drawn into a story about the counterproductive nature of blame during crises. The piece begins with a compelling analogy involving a house fire, where the immediate reaction is to argue about […]
Dating in midlife can be a unique adventure—one filled with hope, humor, and sometimes, a few old dating habits that no longer serve us. In our latest video on LILY Tube, we dive into Netflix’s newest reality series, which follows six singles (aged 56-70) as they navigate modern dating with the help of sociologist and […]
Recently, Cathy was struck by a simple yet profound pep-talk right before a symphony performance. The director of Skyward Symphony encouraged the members by saying: “As conductor, I’m like the dad of the symphony. I want you to go out there tonight and have JOY.” This reminded Cathy of the scripture, “Men are that they […]
Following our satirical letter last week on how to ruin your next marriage, we now offer twenty heartfelt suggestions for divorce survivors who wish to remarry and build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. Reflect deeply on these ideas and be intentional in your approach to a new marriage. 1. Communicate Respectfully: Take turns talking and listen […]
As members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and coaches who have associated with divorce survivors for many years, we’ve observed patterns that can lead to the downfall of marriages. Based on these insights, here are some surefire ways to ruin your next marriage. Divorce survivors considering remarriage should reflect on these […]
Dating can be exciting, nerve-wracking, and sometimes downright hilarious! Have you ever been on a first date that went terribly wrong? You’re not alone! In our latest LILY Tube video, relationship coaches Jeff & Cathy Teichert break down the biggest Dos and Don’ts of first dates—complete with hilariously bad first impressions from movies like Bye, […]
The new movie musical Wicked: Part One teaches us that life, love, and relationships are far more complex than the labels we assign or the narratives we choose to believe. One of the most poignant moments in the story is when Elphaba sings I’m Not That Girl, a heart-breaking reflection on feeling unworthy of love. […]
As we step into a new year, many of us are setting financial goals and dreaming of a brighter future. But what if the key to abundance isn’t just about numbers or strategy, but a shift in mindset? In our latest video on LILY Tube, “Joel Osteen & How an Abundant Mindset Will Bless Your […]
