March 27, 2025
LILY Letter 195: The Blame Trap - How to Break Free & Find Real Solutions

In Jeff's recent full length article in his Singles Column for Meridian Magazine: Beyond Blame: Nurturing Relationships in The Inferno of Frustration, readers are drawn into a story about the counterproductive nature of blame during crises. The piece begins with a compelling analogy involving a house fire, where the immediate reaction is to argue about […]

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March 13, 2025
LILY Letter 194: Finding Love at Any Age

Dating in midlife can be a unique adventure—one filled with hope, humor, and sometimes, a few old dating habits that no longer serve us. In our latest video on LILY Tube, we dive into Netflix’s newest reality series, which follows six singles (aged 56-70) as they navigate modern dating with the help of sociologist and […]

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February 27, 2025
LILY Letter 193: Choosing JOY - The Purpose of Our Existence

Recently, Cathy was struck by a simple yet profound pep-talk right before a symphony performance. The director of Skyward Symphony encouraged the members by saying: “As conductor, I’m like the dad of the symphony. I want you to go out there tonight and have JOY.” This reminded Cathy of the scripture, “Men are that they […]

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February 20, 2025
LILY Letter 192: How to Succeed in Your Next Marriage

Following our satirical letter last week on how to ruin your next marriage, we now offer twenty heartfelt suggestions for divorce survivors who wish to remarry and build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. Reflect deeply on these ideas and be intentional in your approach to a new marriage. 1. Communicate Respectfully: Take turns talking and listen […]

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February 13, 2025
LILY Letter 191: How to Ruin Your Next Marriage

As members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and coaches who have associated with divorce survivors for many years, we’ve observed patterns that can lead to the downfall of marriages. Based on these insights, here are some surefire ways to ruin your next marriage. Divorce survivors considering remarriage should reflect on these […]

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February 6, 2025
LILY Letter 190: Dating Disasters & How to Avoid Them

Dating can be exciting, nerve-wracking, and sometimes downright hilarious! Have you ever been on a first date that went terribly wrong? You’re not alone! In our latest LILY Tube video, relationship coaches Jeff & Cathy Teichert break down the biggest Dos and Don’ts of first dates—complete with hilariously bad first impressions from movies like Bye, […]

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January 24, 2025
LILY Letter 189: Lessons from WICKED - Things Aren't Always As They Seem

The new movie musical Wicked: Part One teaches us that life, love, and relationships are far more complex than the labels we assign or the narratives we choose to believe. One of the most poignant moments in the story is when Elphaba sings I’m Not That Girl, a heart-breaking reflection on feeling unworthy of love. […]

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January 9, 2025
LILY Letter 188: Living in Divine Abundance

As we step into a new year, many of us are setting financial goals and dreaming of a brighter future. But what if the key to abundance isn’t just about numbers or strategy, but a shift in mindset? In our latest video on LILY Tube, “Joel Osteen & How an Abundant Mindset Will Bless Your […]

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January 3, 2025
LILY Letter 187: Happy New Year 2025!

As 2025 begins, it’s the perfect time to reflect on the past year and set empowering goals for the future. Whether you’re blending a family or embracing the single life, starting the New Year with intention can make all the difference. Blended families thrive on unity and connection. Singles flourish when they embrace self-growth and […]

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