If you’ve experienced the pain of divorce, the loss of a spouse, or are navigating love later in life, you know that healing is not just about "moving on"—it’s about intentionally moving forward with a heart at peace. In our latest video on LILY Tube, we dive into the journey of healing after divorce, sharing […]
In today’s dating landscape, the concept of ethical non-monogamy is gaining traction, but is it really sustainable—or just a way to avoid true commitment? Peacock’s reality series, Couple to Throuple, follows couples as they experiment with polyamory, using expert coaching and therapeutic language meant to normalize something inherently problematic. Despite their best efforts, nearly every "throuple" fell apart […]
Life has a way of taking unexpected turns, and for many single adults, the thought of starting over after a major loss—whether a divorce, the passing of a spouse, or years of waiting for love—can feel overwhelming. But as Colonel Wesley L. Fox once said, “You are never too old to start over.” In our […]
Navigating life after divorce can feel like a never-ending emotional rollercoaster, filled with moments of grief, self-discovery, and hope for new beginnings. In our latest episode on LILY Tube, we explore the film Bye Bye Love to examine how three divorced men cope with healing, dating, and co-parenting. Through Dave, Donny, and Vic, we see […]
Blending families is a journey filled with both challenges and immense rewards. In our latest LILY Tube episode, Bonus Kids: The Hardest AND Most Rewarding Challenge Yet!, we share our personal experiences as step-parents and relationship coaches. One of the biggest hurdles for bonus parents is stepping into a child's life without the shared history […]
Mother’s Day can be a time of deep reflection for those who are divorced, widowed, or navigating single life. Whether you're co-parenting, rebuilding after loss, or blending a new family, this holiday can bring a mix of emotions—joy, grief, and sometimes, uncertainty about the future. In "A Woman’s Perspective on Divorce," we break down powerful […]
Life often teaches us to chase the big moments—finding love, building a family, reaching major milestones. But what if true happiness isn’t found in the grand events, but in the simple, ordinary moments we often overlook? This week on LILY Tube, we explore how savoring the ordinary can bring greater peace and joy to our […]
Boundaries have become a hot topic in modern relationships, often framed as the key to healthy interactions. But are they always the best approach? In our latest video on LILY Tube, Jeff challenges the idea that boundaries build intimacy, arguing that they often create division instead. While boundaries can protect against abuse or toxic behavior, they […]
In Jeff's recent full length article in his Singles Column for Meridian Magazine: Beyond Blame: Nurturing Relationships in The Inferno of Frustration, readers are drawn into a story about the counterproductive nature of blame during crises. The piece begins with a compelling analogy involving a house fire, where the immediate reaction is to argue about […]
