If you’ve experienced the pain of divorce, the loss of a spouse, or are navigating love later in life, you know that healing is not just about "moving on"—it’s about intentionally moving forward with a heart at peace. In our latest video on LILY Tube, we dive into the journey of healing after divorce, sharing key insights on how to process grief, let go of bitterness, and prepare for healthier relationships. As relationship coaches and authors of Intentional Courtship, we’ve seen firsthand how easy it is to get stuck in the pain of the past. True healing happens when we shift our focus from what happened to us, to how we can grow from it. Forgiveness, self-awareness, and personal growth are all part of this transformative process.
In The Secret to Moving On After Divorce, we discuss the importance of self-reflection over blame, how to avoid the trap of a victim mindset, and why choosing a better partner next time is not nearly as important as becoming a more healed person. We also share a powerful story of a man who forgave his ex-wife and her new husband—not because they deserved it, but because he refused to carry the burden of resentment. Healing takes time, and as President James E. Faust said, "Forgiveness is not always instantaneous… Most of us need time to work through pain and loss." The goal is not just to heal but to grow into a person who can create a strong, joyful relationship in the future. To dive even deeper, read Jeff's Meridian Magazine Article: From Pain to Peace: The Journey to Emotional Healing After Divorce
Whether you’re divorced, widowed, still single, or blending a family in a later marriage, this weeks message is for you. Healing takes time and it comes in layers. As you enter a new relationship, don't be surprised if some pain from the past starts getting triggered. That normal! The good news is, if it's coming up it's ready to be healed on a deeper level. We can help you do just that with our LILY Coaching program. Healing is a journey, but you don’t have to walk it alone. We’re here to support you every step of the way! Watch the full video now on LILY Tube and share it with someone who might need a little more peace post-divorce.
With love and encouragement,
Jeff & Cathy Teichert
Intentional Dating & Relationship Coaching
PS. For in-depth support rebuilding your life after loss - we encourage you to take our Life Design After Divorce self-paced online course. If you'd like one-on-one support, schedule a FREE CONSULT with Jeff or Cathy and we'll provide you with a customized roadmap to your desired destination. We can help you heal faster and date smarter than ever before!
The Secret to Moving On After Divorce (Most People Get This Wrong)
Feeling stuck after divorce? Healing isn’t just about moving on—it’s about moving forward with peace, purpose, and self-growth. In this video, we share powerful insights on overcoming grief, letting go of resentment, and preparing for healthier relationships. Watch now to learn how forgiveness and self-reflection can set you free and help you create the love and happiness you deserve! ????✨
To heal from relationship loss and create more love in your life in 2025, read Intentional Courtship (available on Amazon).
Dive deep into healing from divorce with our self-paced online course: Life Design After Divorce (now available on demand!).
LILY Coaching is available to support you personally. Simply schedule a FREE Consult with Jeff or Cathy. We will provide you with a roadmap to your desired destination!
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