LILY Letter 197: How to Slow Down & Truly Enjoy Your Life

April 24, 2025

Life often teaches us to chase the big moments—finding love, building a family, reaching major milestones. But what if true happiness isn’t found in the grand events, but in the simple, ordinary moments we often overlook? This week on LILY Tube, we explore how savoring the ordinary can bring greater peace and joy to our lives. Whether you’re navigating single life, re-entering the dating world, or blending a new family, learning to appreciate life’s small blessings can transform your daily experience. Something as simple as the taste of a fresh orange, the satisfaction of paying your bills on time, or the comfort of getting into a reliable car can be sources of deep contentment—if we take the time to notice them.

In the classic film Christmas Oranges, an orange is a rare and treasured gift, savored for its fragrance, taste, and vibrant color. Yet today, in our world of abundance, we often take such simple pleasures for granted. The key to reclaiming that sense of enjoyment is intentional appreciation. By pausing to notice the small joys around us, we enrich our lives and increase our sense of fulfillment. Whether it’s a quiet moment with a loved one, the warmth of morning sunlight, or a simple meal shared with family, these small moments—when truly experienced—can bring more joy than even the biggest achievements.

We invite you to watch this week’s LILY Tube episode about Savoring the Ordinary, where we share practical ways to cultivate gratitude and mindful presence in your everyday life. No matter where you are on your journey—single, dating, or blending a family—learning to appreciate life’s little blessings can help you build stronger relationships and a happier heart. Watch the episode, reflect on the ordinary joys in your life, and let us know in the comments: What’s one simple thing you are grateful for today? Let’s build a life where we don’t just live—we savor every moment.

With love,
Jeff & Cathy Teichert
Love In Later Years (LILY) – Love. Intention. Life. You.

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The Secret to Happiness is Hiding in Plain Sight

What if true happiness is hiding in small, everyday moments we often overlook? In this episode of LILY Tube, Jeff & Cathy Teichert explore how something as simple as savoring an orange can teach us to slow down, appreciate life’s simple pleasures, and find joy in the ordinary. Learning to be present and really enjoy the little things can transform your life—watch now and discover how! ????

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