What if your next date could be the best one yet—without breaking the bank? That’s the question we explore in our latest video, How to Use a Date Budget and Why It Matters. The idea came from a single guy named Scott we met at a seminar. He had read our book, Intentional Courtship, invited us out to eat afterward, and insisted on paying—explaining that it came from his date budget. (His girlfriend wasn’t available that night, so he was still using the money to connect and enjoy life!) That simple idea sparked a great conversation about how intentional dating—backed by a little planning—can bring more joy and connection into your life.
Whether you’re single or married, a date budget is about valuing relationships enough to invest in them. Singles often say they want companionship but struggle to take action—having a dedicated budget removes that obstacle. And for couples, it keeps romance alive and reminds you that love needs nurturing. It’s not about how much you spend, but how much you value the time you share. Even if you take a break from dating, that budget can fund a “bromance,” a “girl’s night,” or a little self-care—because loving your life attracts more love.
So how much should you spend? $10? $25? $50? The real answer is: whatever you can reasonably afford. If you plan your dates thoughtfully, you’ll find that great experiences come from creativity, not cash. Scott wasn’t just saving money—he was investing in meaningful moments, with others and with himself. Watch How to Use a Date Budget and Why It Matters to see how you can use this simple idea to make dating more intentional, fun, and fulfilling. Your next great date—and your next great story—might be just around the corner!
How to Use a Date Budget and Why It Matters
Unlock the secret to more fun, meaningful dates without overspending! Learn how a simple date budget can boost your love life, strengthen relationships, and create unforgettable memories—whether you’re single, married, or just investing in yourself.
To create more love in your life, read Intentional Courtship.
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